Nutritional Foundation

2010
05.09

Nutrition is your foundation and it affects all other aspects of your life: your energy, mental alertness, potential income, sex drive, your overall health. If you don’t create a foundation with nutrition, it’s hard to do anything to the best of your ability.

Would you plan to build a skyscraper of a life on sand and twigs? What does your nutritional foundation look like?

Would you put beer into the gas tank of your Civic? Unless it’s a Delorean, why would you put fuel in your your body that doesn’t serve you? These are some nutritional nuggets, unprocessed, that will help you create an environment and foundation for personal well-being and health.

You Are What You Eat

“But I’ve heard this a million times!” That’s because it true. My personal rule is: If you don’t know what it’s made of, don’t eat it- specifically ingredients.

When you shop for food, look at the ingredients, preservatives and unknown chemicals, mono-plexy-what?  Content percentages are not very important. This isn’t rocket science, just asl yourself, “Do I know what this will do to my body in 2 years?”

For example; a box of harmless oatmeal raisin cookies. The ingredients read: Enriched Flour (wheat flour, malted barley flour, naicin, reduced iron, thiamine mononitrate… riboflavin, folic acid). Most of these turn out to be vitamins, but little is known about their long term side effects. Read ingredients and ask yourself, “Is this increasing my foundation for overall health and wellness?” If you can’t answer with a resounding “Yes!”, eat something better.

You Don’t Have To Be Disciplined to Eat Right

Most people give up on making healthy food choices because they let their guard down for one important hour every week; when they go to the grocery store.

If  you can be disciplined here once a week, you’ll avoid being tempted all week with unhealthy foods. You won’t be feeding the urge to binge and eat your face full of bad foods off because you’re stressed. Instead of going bananas, you’ll eat bananas :) . Having  only healthy foods around you may be hard at first, but the rewards are a longer, healthier and better quality life.

Here’s a trick: If you can’t manage one hour of discipline at the food store, go food shopping with the healthiest person you know. They’ll give you suggestions for new foods. Try new these dishes, after you’ve read the ingredients of course. Enjoy the benefits of knowing you’re going to feel and live a healthier life because of that one hour of discipline.

Smaller Portions, More Often

When you feel full, you ate too much food. If you make over-eating a habit, your body will learn how to store excess food as fat. I say “learn” because we can actually condition our minds to eat right or wrong.

The best way to keep your metabolism and energy level consistent is to eat every 2.5 hours. This with prevent your body from storing that extra food from a large meal as fat. In addition, your body’s blood sugar level will stay consistent meaning no food comas. Instead of storing fat, your body will utilize your food ever 2.5 hours, burn it off and adapt to being more efficient in utilizing food. Tip: A good way to judge a portion of food is about the size of your palm- that’s one serving.

You’re on the Right Track

There are different stomach chemicals that digest fruits as opposed to grains or starches. If you eat starches, proteins and fruits together, it will take your body longer to digest, possibly induce a food coma, or cause improper digestion, ie: gas.

The best way to promote digestion is to eat foods in similar food groups at one time. For example, if you’re craving fruit for breakfast, eat an orange, grapefruit or melon together, but save the banana (starch) or cereal for mid-morning. This will promote digestion.

Some people complain that they don’t have enough time to eat every 2.5 hours. That may be somewhat true, but I pack food for everywhere I go and haven’t had too many problems sneaking an apple or banana snack between meals.

Another common misconception is to drink lots of water after a meal to help digestion. This may actually dilute your digestive juices and work against your digestive process. Try drinking water 20 minutes before your meal, not after.

H-two-Oh?

Most of our body is water. I’ve heard experts suggest that you need glasses of water a day. Great. But what happens in reality?

Unless you’re toting around a Nalgene bottle everywhere you go, the likelihood of 8 glasses a day is unlikely. A simple way to make sure you get those 8 glasses a day is to eat water rich foods, ie: fruits and vegetables. Most fruits and vegetables are extremely rich with water and vitamins. If you can manage one small salad a day and three snacks of fruit, you’re already consuming part of your daily H20 intake. Drinking water before a few meals should cover the rest.

But It Tastes Bad!

I agree. Eating healthy doesn’t taste good at first. If you’ve been eating sodium-rich beef strips, wrapped with bacon and covered in three cheeses, you may not enjoy eating healthy right away. It took me 30 days of consistent effort to change my taste buds from form to function, meaning to start eating for my health, not to relieve mental stress. If you’re stressed, watch a movie, or better, go to the gym! Or hang out with your new health conscious friend that eats right.

One of the best tricks I’ve learned is using seasoning, pepper, onions, garlic and mustard to spice up otherwise bland dishes. A tuna fish sandwich with spicy mustard instead of mayonnaise is much healthier and depending on your pallet, better tasting.

A big part of staying healthy is disassociating your mind with meal time as being a pure “for-pleasure” experience. You can be on either extreme of the tastes-good vs. good-for-you scale, but most people associate meal time with “this is for my taste bud homies”. The best way to dissociate meal time with pleasure is to eat for function for 30 days. Consume only what your body NEEDS nutritionally to function at its best?

Eat healthy meals in palm-portions, six times a day for one month. Hang out with people that eat healthy. Go shopping with them. Have a potluck. Pack your lunch. Tell people about your fitness goals. Find a way to hold yourself accountable for one month with the help of others.

If you can manage to achieve this discipline, the tasty foods that you once splurged on will become a nice treat and not a psychological crutch. This is power over mind. Eating with self-discipline can’t be purchased. There’s only one person that can give it to you and that’s you.

There is no one diet that works for everyone, but these are techniques that have proved effective for me. The only real way to know what works for you is to actually try it and experiment for yourself- Bon Appétit!

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The Results: Carnivore to Vegan Experiment

2010
04.01

The carnivore to vegan experiment has ended as of Friday March 26th. This article is about my personal findings and experiences.

To recap, my goal over the last month was to maintain my current weight and muscle mass by eating an all natural vegan diet. This excluded anything with ingredients that I didn’t recognize by name. This ruled out all foods in plastic packaging.

It was challenging to adjust to this diet at first. It forced me to consistently try new foods, but later I was trying all sorts of foods simply from the excitement of exploring new tastes. Over the last 30 days I’ve eaten fresh coconut, pummelo and passion fruit to soy milk, vegan burgers and organic almond butter. One of the greatest joys I’ve experienced is this new found desire to embrace new foods. It’s a curiosity that I’ve seldom associated with meal times and it’s opened many new doors.

I’ve written this article in a pros & cons format to save you time. I’ve provided my personal opinions at the end of the post if you want to read more in depth.

Pros of being Vegan

  • consistent energy throughout the day; no food comas
  • No phlegm when singing!
  • lost small gut (-7 lbs.)
  • vegan diet promotes multiple meals due to hunger
  • bowels are regular
  • veganism promotes all sorts of new food choices
  • Inspired others to eat healthier through example and by having healthy snacks available all the time
  • Building my self-discipline by not allowing the option to eat unhealthy
  • A greater awareness about additive, preservatives and processed foods
  • Learned about the benefits of organic foods, where to buy them and how to cook them well.
  • Finding of the local farmer’s market :)
  • the first hand knowledge and experience of knowing you can go to a vegan diet right from carnivore and it’s very possible
  • Feeling better spiritually about my food choices
  • Personally knowing the facts of veganism and how it specifically effects my body
  • Better health and consistent feeling of well being

Cons of being Vegan

  • Missing out on staple dishes, ie: cheese omelets, sushi, BBQ chicken, In & Out Burgers
  • Fatigue and runny nose during first week of transition
  • Remembering to eat more often
  • Having to pack food
  • Gas, lots of it
  • Slight muscle loss
  • Soy, a great source of vegan protein, is bad for you in large quantities
  • Quick food stops are harder because most convenient chain restaurants are not abundant with vegan food choices
  • explaining why you’re doing this to friends that don’t get it
  • Having to go shopping more often because natural foods go bad quicker
  • Paying more money for organic & vegan foods
  • Being “that guy” because you ask for weird stuff like a chicken salad, hold the cheese, chicken and croutons
  • Not partaking in certain social events due to food choices

Overall the experiment was beneficial to my personal health and well-being. I discovered that milk was the cause for my singing limitations for over ten years. I would get some nasty phlegm after 15 minutes heavy singing. Now I can sing for and over an hour with no problems, especially when I’m hydrated.

I did lose more weight than I had planned. You should know that I’m in the minority as far a metabolism. Because this experiement I averaged 3,000 calories a day and ate 5 full meals a day, not including snacks.

At first, I found it hard to keep up with the calorie intake, but later adjusted. The goal was to maintain my weight, but I lost seven pounds total; 5 lbs within the first two weeks and 2 lbs in the last two weeks.

I decided not to post my percent body fat because it’s difficult to get an accurate reading. It felt as if I lost some muscle mass but I haven’t measured it for this round of experimentation.

Socially, it’s hard to remain vegan in the environment of carnivores. Many social event revolve around eating meats together. I love BBQ’ng. Fortunately there are always options in these situations. Trader Joe’s has a variety of vegan burgers that worked out well for grilling so I didn’t have to miss out on these events.

I feel spiritually, physically and mental healthier eating all natural foods all the time. I haven’t experienced a food coma in 30 days.

On the flip side, I’ve had more than average gas. Later I discovered this has to do with the combinations of what you eat, not necessarily what you eat. For example, if you mix a fruit with a condensed grain it might give you gas. Or a non-strachy fruit like an orange with a starch fruit like a banana, it might give you some issues.

I went from drinking 2 liters of water a day to a half a liter for the sole fact that most of the fruits I consumed throughout the day were 90% water.

Sometimes I felt I was missing out on life by not partaking in some unhealthy foods. But each time, I consciously remembered that I was making a better choice and/or building my self-disipline. On the positive side, my palette is much more sensitive to bland foods. Salads are a collage of new flavor and fruits taste like candy to me now. :)

The question you should ask is “what works best for you?” Vegan, vegetarian, carnivore, pescetarian or something in-between?

Try something new for 30 days. Do you think you will learn something valuable? Start with a small change for one week. If you’re feeling very ambitious or want help with the disciple, find someone to hold you accountable.

Experimentation gave us the light bulb, cars and the internet. Maybe certain food choices will help you live a more fulfilled and happy life. It’s possible your diet is keeping you from experiencing that life because the growth hormones you’re consuming are altering your brain chemistry.

What worked for me may not work for you- that’s your job to figure out. I will suggest trying a healthier diet, with more fruits and vegetables and observe what happens in your life. Experiment. Try new and healthier foods.

I believe most of us have a intuitive voice in our head that tells us what’s healthy for our body. It’s probably telling you to eat healthier and smarter- listen to it!

*My next plan is to add non-vegan organic foods into my diet, starting with eggs (free range / grain fed) and certain low mercury fish.

Your Happiness Network

2010
03.27

Have you ever met someone full of life? Their joyful energy was flowing effortlessly through their body language, words and actions. You might have even felt a little jealous because they’re just so darn happy all the time. You feel a little less when they leave. This blog will show you how happiness is automatically created and sustained by the people with whom you surround yourself.

Passive and Positive

What if everyone you talked to had a positive yet grounded outlook of life? Do you think it could influence you in a positive way? All of the the major personal development gurus speak on the importance of association & environment. Your friends, family, co-workers and lover influence you consciously, subconsciously, passively and directly. Have you ever experienced peer pressure when you hang out with certain people? Maybe you tend to do bad bad things that you normally would not have done alone. This is the magic of influence; it works both ways.

Imagine your life if you could hang out with the most influential, wise and happy people in the world? They would probably challenge you, influence you to grow, to accomplish great things far beyond what you thought was possible. But how do you practically and constantly surround yourself with the greatest positive minds? Here’s how.

The Secret Source

Most leaders became influential by spreading a message of truth. Back in the day, they wrote books and spoke publicly. Centuries later, audio and video recordings were made. Today the greatest and wisest messages are in books, recordings and certain internet sources. The magic is that the greatest sources of positive influence are absolutely free. It’s called the public library.

The Library has everything. Internet access, books, audio, video and many people to help you find it. So why do so many people ignore this free resource?

A majority of people believe going to the library is dorky. It reminds them of writing book reports via cliff notes. Many people don’t find it exciting to read a book and they stop there, not realizing the best books are also published as audio books.

A few people will have good intentions, but not actually take the time to go to the library. Even more will start a few books and get distracted by television. Many will make excuses like, “I can’t afford $10 for a used book” or my favorite, “I don’t have time”, instead of making time.

The internet is a great resource as well, but anybody can create a website. The library is best because written books & audio books have a publisher. The publisher sifts through most of the crap for you. Google’s search engine sifts through most internet crap for you.

For those few seekers of knowledge that have the wherewithal to USE the ideas of great minds, they are richly rewarded. Financial wisdom. Intellectual knowledge. Spiritual truth. Sexual technique. They will be rewarded with experience well beyond their years. Soon these seekers naturally gravitate towards success or happiness not knowing how it happened.

Become a Student

Another way to influence yourself greatly towards happiness and success is to physically surround yourself with the happiest people you know. Who are the people who laugh and love life the most? Call them to hang out. Study their philosophy. Ask them questions. Find out what works for them.

Toastmasters is a great example of the power of environment. They are a worldwide organization of growth-minded people who build their courage and become better communicators. This encouraging environment helps people overcome their fears, starting with one of the biggest fears in the world; public speaking.

We become the company we keep. The environment that we create determines our happiness, our level personal fulfillment and our bank account.

Work to Set the Autopilot

Don’t worry about how you will be happier or more successful. Simply surround yourself with the people that will automatically pull you there. Join Toastmasters, read timeless books and spend less time with the negative influences in your life. Politely and lovingly shed the relationships that are negative and replace them with positive influences. Watch what happens. And I promise, if this doesn’t work, you can always go back to hanging out with your loser friends- they’re not going anywhere soon.

This isn’t rocket science, but it does take courage and self-discipline to create your network of happiness. Remember that the rewards of creating your network is automatic success and happiness with little effort on your part. Once the network is there, simply sit back and watch your life embody the greatness you’ve invited.

What To Do With The Body?

2010
03.17

I recently had an in-depth discussion with a friend about death. It centered around the idea, “What will you do with your body when you die?”

For most of us, this is a morbid question. Nobody really likes to think about death, but it’s these very thoughts that make us appreciate life. When you recognize your mortality every now and then, you appreciate life’s fleeting and precious moments.

What changes in one’s spirit when they are told they will soon die? Lance Armstrong and Freddie Mercury. In both their lives, the knowledge of death propelled them into a state of passion and superhuman achievement.

The most common and most expensive option for laying to rest your vessel is a traditional burial. It requires time, money, a few yards of concrete, construction forming, a laborer, a concrete finisher, a back-hoe, a highly skilled stone mason, an embalmer and a coffin. You’ll probably preserve the body for an extra few hundred years in case we develop technology for bringing corpses back to life. I think that’s a movie… if not, it should be. What if there was a better way to lay a loved one’s body to rest?

The next most common form of laying a loved one to rest is cremation. It’s economical for space and slightly cheaper. Cremation requires an immense amount of fuel to disintegrate a corpse, which is approximately 90% water. Estimates show it takes 350 cubic feet of natural gas to burn one 150 lb body. That’s approximately one and a half days of power for the average American household. “Sorry, the lights went out.. Uncle Jimmy was a small guy”. :)

What feels right emotionally, intellectually and spiritually? I believe the most natural way is to give your body to the earth’s soil or ocean. If you truly believe that you’re not going to need your vessel anymore, doesn’t it make sense that we should give back our body to best serve the needs of the universe? In this case, natural decomposition. What can we gain as a society if we didn’t spend so much effort to physicality preserve the our loved ones? What if it was socially acceptable to honor someone’s memory instead of a large hunk of stone?

No matter what your process, the essence of a loved one lives on in your heart. The meanings we attach to inanimate objects is within our mind. Why do we spend an exuberant amount of money on any burial or cremation? Why not plant a tree to mark a place of rest? Why not plant a tree while you’re alive? Better yet, build a log cabin with a jacuzzi while you can enjoy it!

What are you going to do with your vessel today? Will you enjoy it and use it to aid the universe?

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

-Mahatma Gandhi

How To Write A Wedding Toast!

2010
03.10

My mail over the last 12 months consists of one third junk mail, one third from my G-ma and one third wedding invitations. :)

At 27, most people I know are married or on their way. And without fail, an unsuspecting groomsman gets suckered into giving a toast at dinner. For some this is a delight, but for most it’s a nightmare. This is what to do if you’re an inexperienced first-time toaster.

#1) Speak from personal experience. Nothing comes off better than heart-felt personal stories. You’ll probably want to include a FUNNY story about the bride and groom. Keep it PG for grandma, but always speak from experience, whether it’s good or bad.

#2) Organize your speech. Have a beginning, middle and end. There’s a famous saying, “Tell them what you’re gonna tell them, tell them, and then tell them what you told them.”

Note: Toasting while you’re toasted is already a bad combo, so keep it focused and organized for everyone’s sake.

#3) Practice, practice, practice in front of a video camera, in front of a loved one or in front of a small group. Watch it, take notes, get feedback and use it to better your toast. Watch it, take notes, get feedback and improve. The more this happens, the better your speech gets.

Most people think comedians, public speakers and actors have an amazing “gift” that they’re born with. Nope- it’s called practice. Mozart started diligently practicing at age 3, hence the awesomeness. Some speakers may be inclined to advance quickly, but practice is the only thing that separates the smooth & suave from the painfully awkward speaker. Every mentor I’ve ever received advice from has told me that over-rehearsing is the key to a successful speech.

Remember that your audience is likely to be friends and family that sincerely want you to do your best. Most audiences are forgiving and do not expect a world class speech. What they do expect is a sincere and heart-felt story that’s been rehearsed.

Measure Your Personal Development

2010
03.10

Personal development is difficult to measure. How much do you really grow from reading a book or hearing a speaker? You can probably get some good tips from a book, but did it have any real impact? Sometimes we have these intense “ah-ha!” moments that tell us we’ve grown in some way. Other times we notice our own growth long after it’s happened.

One way to know if you’re growing is your failure rate. If you’re not failing every once in awhile, you’re probably not growing at your full potential. A person who is growing at a rapid rate is probably failing a lot (and probably highly courageous).

Can you ride a bike? Probably. It’s easy because you’ve done it a bazillion times since you were a kid. But what if I snapped my fingers and your bike turned into a unicycle? Not as easy. But you could probably adapt if you had to and the result would be tangible growth. How many people do you know that can ride a uni-cycle?!

If you continually take steps to put yourself in uncomfortable situations, like public speaking at Toastmasters, it gets easier. Think of muscle growth. You lift a weight, the muscle gets tired, then it repairs itself stronger. When you study hard, your mind is crammed, but you learn new things. If you exercise your courage, your soul is stretching, and you will grow as a conscious human being.

Are you having “ah-ha” moments? What’s your failure rate? Can you feel your mind, body and soul stretching everyday?

It takes courage to put yourself into new situations daily. Our persistence to keep coming back is what makes us grow and what, I believe, makes us human.

How To Meditate

2010
03.09

Have you ever had a day where your mind buzzes incessantly? Are you on your last straw?

Meditation eliminates that buzz so you can use your mind the way it’s supposed to be used. It’s like dropping a backpack full of rocks on the hiking trail of life.

Many people ask me curiously about meditation. What is it? Why do you meditate? How do I mediate? This article will answer these questions and hopefully inspire you to try it for yourself.

What is Mediation?

Wikipedia says that meditation is a holistic discipline by which the practitioner attempts to get beyond the reflexive, “thinking” mind into a deeper state of relaxation or awareness.

In my own words, meditation is the art of relaxing your mind. I like to call it an art because 1) it’s a creative process and 2) there’s no wrong way to do it. As long as you get the results, you’re on the right track.

What are the results and benefits of mediation?

Many people who regularly mediate have been known to have creative leaps of genius or return from meditation with a relaxing sense of peace. Some even experience visions of the future.

A lot of people avoid meditation because it seems counter intuitive. “You want me to sit here and do nothing and think of nothing, and it’s supposed to help me how? You’re crazy!”

Hundreds of companies in the Eastern world have adopted meditation as a core employee tool; it’s even in their company handbooks. Most major religions use mediation as way to reach a higher understanding of our world. It is not the same as traditional prayer, although sometimes it’s accompanied with prayer.

The one benefit I usually experience is an significant increase in awareness. Awareness is simply deeply recognizing your current reality. This awareness helps me realize the insignificance of my current challenges and focus on my life’s mission.

How do I meditate?

In my own words, meditation is the art of relaxing your mind. These are some helpful techniques to prompt you into mediation.

The Muscle Relaxer- This is my favorite. While in a comfortable chair, close your eyes and imagine a soothing, massaging force traveling up from your toes. This force will travel slowly up your entire body, relaxing each muscle as it travels past. As the force passes over each muscle, it will unravel all the tension and the muscle will be completely relaxed. As the force finally passes to the top of your head, do nothing. Think of nothing. Repeat as needed.

The Sound of the Earth- Pretend you’re literally sitting on a cloud (Indian-style or half-lotus) watching over a large city or landscape. I usually use a vast & scenic outdoor place that I’ve personally visited. Listen to the deep, slow sound of the earth as it rotates.

Blank- try to think of nothing. Sometimes I do this is an a spacial sense. There’s a floor and then nothing.

Meditation works best when you practice it often. I usually do this at night or first thing in the morning. Of the Zen Masters I’ve met or read books from, they usually suggest a minimum meditation of 20 minutes a day. It’s also important to not fall asleep while meditating.

If you’d like to learn more about the philosophy of mediation, I highly recommend The Power of Now, especially those of you that are familiar with the Christian faith, but are searching for a deeper truth through mediation practice.

This is a the best advice I can give to beginners: Your goal is to think of nothing and “feel” your surroundings. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t “get it” the first few times. Keep at it. The benefits of mediation are directly proportional to the time you invest. That is, if you think time actually exists :)

Do You Have Too Many Shoes?

2010
03.04


Today I visited the local Rotary Club and I witnessed a remarkable story from two courageous women. The program they presented is called “Shoes for Africa”. Their mission is to provide children in Africa with sustainable footwear, and in turn, a gateway to an education.

As I reached for the flier in the middle of the table, I brushed my $300 suit through the cheesecake at the table that I wasn’t going to eat. The Universe was gracing me with some perspective.

Points:

  • Shoes are the gateway to an education in Africa. Most would-be students can’t physically sustain the 10+ mile walk to school due to lack of footwear which results in parasitic foot sores. It’s customary for children to make ornate shoes from used car tires, pop bottles and string.
  • The ASHE’ Foundation holds the ultimate mission to collect and distribute 1 million pairs of shoes, with a vision to eventually create a self-sustainable shoe factory. At this time, no shoe manufacturers exist in Mthatha, Africa.
  • The African countryside is covered with orange trees. In Mthatha, there are currently no orange juice manufacturing facilities to process the juice that would save thousands of lives across Africa. Their orange juice is imported.

After I heard this, there was only one acceptable response. I donated money and wrote this blog.

Now I’m asking you to please consider donating financially to this mission. The ASHE’ Foundation has an immediate need for financial support and always spiritual support. Visit this page and click the donate button.

To donate shoes or to volunteer locally anywhere in the continental United States, contact the ASHE’ Foundation directly.

If you’d like to know more, please visit CNN or read this pdf overview.

The ASHE’ Foundation

12400 Venture Canyon Blvd., Suite 111,

Studio City, CA 91604

Phone: (323) 850-6964
Fax: (323) 230-8711

info@theashefoundation.org
www.theashefoundation.org